OPED
To Post or Not to Post
A post of two drinks on a café table. A sweatshirt sleeve in a mirror selfie. A shared BeReal with someone cropped halfway out… It’s not quite a secret, not quite an announcement, but a “soft launch.” This is how our generation goes public. We reveal affection through angles and hints, carefully edited for public consumption. Our relationships are increasingly shaped by how they will be perceived online rather than by private feelings. The performance becomes the relationship itself, and we start to confuse perception with connection. Then, is it really necessary to “launch” at all?
Nov 6, 2025


